Carrie Bradshaw changed TV for the better


There are only a few television “events” I can recall my family sitting down, en masse, to watch, but they included the finale of those long running Nescafe ads (which was shown in the middle of Hey, Hey! It’s Saturday!), the Sydney Olympics opening ceremony, that last great Michael Jackson concert, and the finale of Sex And The City.

That was when SATC, one of my favourite television shows of all time, ceased to exist.

Sure, I saw the films, like everybody else; I know they exist. I went with my three close girlfriends and at one point, horrified by the spectacle unfolding on screen, I turned to my pal; she was cowering behind her hands (during the sequence, if I recall, where Samantha throws condoms at some Muslims and yells “YES! I HAVE SEX!!”), and I whispered, “It’s okay, they’re not our real friends.”

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<p>    Saying that felt a little like a betrayal of  these formerly beloved characters. Because the thing is, for me – ten  years later – the enduring power of SATC is not the clothes, or even the writing about sex (though it was remarkable enough at the time), but instead, friendship.
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<p>    In particular, the complex relationship of  Carrie and Miranda, which reached a memorable point of crisis in the  series’ final season. I still find it hard to watch their fight,  in the penultimate episode, after Lexi’s funeral. I didn’t really care  whether or not Carrie ended up with Aleksandr or Big (even though I  assumed she’d absof*ckinlutely pick Big), I just wanted Carrie and  Miranda to make up.
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<p>    Another great strength of the show, which  increased as the series drew towards its close, was that the directors  and writers weren’t afraid to let the characters sit with silence and  pain.
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